Confused, what should I do?

why are you giving up your life, your family, your education, you friends for him. ask yourself if he's willing to do the same you in return? you're attending a private university with scholarship and you want to transfer to a community college for WHAT? if he's attending the community college why doesn'the transfer to your area? or better yet, why don't you wait till you're done with school and get the proper education for a job later and move to california when you're more stable. I do agree with your family that you're rushing it. if he loves you and you love him wait it out a bit..BTW craiglist people are dangerous. and will that job wait for you to move out there? even so, what if the job doesn't go through, what will you do for funding. I honestly don't believe you're making the right decision, try waiting till you're done with school.